jeudi 18 avril 2013

Will Smith et Jada Pinkett Smith : Open marriage

Depuis un certain temps, il y a plusieurs rumeurs qui affirment que le célèbre couple Will Smith et Jada Pinkett Smith aurait fait d’un commun accord, un mariage ouvert.
J’ai toujours dit à Will qu’il peut faire ce qu’il veutà condition que tu puisses te regarder dans la glace et te dire que c’est okay. - Jada Pinkett Smith
Jada Pinkett confirme  les rumeurs et met les choses au point à travers une lettre mise en ligne sur Facebook:
“Open marriage?
Let me first say this, there are far more important things to talk about in regards to what is happening in the world than whether I have an open marriage or not. I am addressing this issue because a very important subject has been born from discussions about my statement that may be worthy of addressing.
The statement I made in regard to, “Will can do whatever he wants,” has illuminated the need to discuss the relationship between trust and love and how they co-exist.
Do we believe loving someone means owning them? Do we believe that ownership is the reason someone should “behave”? Do we believe that all the expectations, conditions, and underlying threats of “you better act right or else” keep one honest and true? Do we believe that we can have meaningful relationships with people who have not defined nor live by the integrity of his or her higher self? What of unconditional love? Or does love look like, feel like, and operate as enslavement? Do we believe that the more control we put on someone the safer we are? What of TRUST and LOVE?
Should we be married to individuals who can not be responsible for themselves and their families within their freedom? Should we be in relationships with individuals who we can not entrust to their own values, integrity, and LOVE…for us???
Here is how I will change my statement…Will and I BOTH can do WHATEVER we want, because we TRUST each other to do so. This does NOT mean we have an open relationship…this means we have a GROWN one.
Que pensez-vous ?

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